My clearest memories and impressions of Aileen are about her love for gardening, family history, and words which told of reminiscing - not in a sad or sentimental way, but words which captured a place or event or triggered a connection between her, her family and the world around her. Her garden in Castlemaine was always a work in progress, responsive to the seasons and to visitors bringing plant clippings; a lovely, interesting environment. If computers had been available a few decades earlier I don't doubt she'd have established several world records for the extent and accuracy of her family history research! I always think of Aileen as a person who combined the qualities of practicality and organisation with a heart felt and kind regard for people, especially her family, no matter their circumstance. She weathered the storms of grieving and kept those lost close to her heart. A marvelous woman who cared for many and was cared for in her later years by daughters and sons.
Thank you for your kindness, generosity and wisdom. Your door was always open to Melody and me and we will never forget you.