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4 years ago

It's almost been ten years since you left us and you still leave a huge hole. I miss you and the hurt is still very real. I wish I could just talk to you one more time to let you know how much I care and how much you are needed in this world. You are missed. I know you are with us. You will never be forgotten.

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Anonymous
7 years ago

Hey Tod after years trying to find you this is what turns up? Sorry brother, we had a lot of fun those years in Boston. Its been years but I miss the 2am phone calls to go to Providence. Ill never forget ya.

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tracy5377
7 years ago

I am sorry that this is how you found out. Best to you. Tracy

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tracy5377
9 years ago

I can't believe today marks 4 years. It seems just like yesterday that I saw you last. I can still picture your smile, your laugh, and your ability to light up a room. I celebrate and honor you today. You taught me so much about life and about living. I know in my heart that you are at peace and I feel you watching over all of us. I thank you for all of the impact you have had in my life. I am a better person for having knowing you, Tod. I love and miss you very much. Trace

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KEVIN and Kelly
9 years ago

I still think of you alot. Everytime I turn around there is a song or someone with an accent, or just your pop into my head....I wish I would just wake up and you were in the kitchen bitching that there is nothing to eat.....there is still part of me that is so angry with your decision but that is giving way to the good memories we shared and the fact I could never stay mad at you.I guess that doesn't change even now. I am so sorry I could help you get through....I am looking forward to the time when I get to kick you ass again and I mean that in a totally loving way.....I feel your absence as strong today as I did the day you left us and I miss you and love you....ttyl....Brookie says hello Uncle King Tod....

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Brian
10 years ago

Well......its been over 3 years and you are in my thoughts everyday. I miss you and wish you were here to meet my daughter Arden, she will be 1 on Aug. 4th. 2011. She will know her Uncle Tod and the bond you and I had.......I love you and am the man I am because you were part of my life, you've given me perspective and appreciation for everything in my life.......Thank You!!!

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prima murdock
10 years ago

I knew tod sometime between 1998 and 2005 during his time up in boston. We dated for 5 years and he was my best friend. When he moved back and started a new life in Florida, I was broken hearted but over time I did get over it. After discovering what happened I felt as if I lost him all over again and this time I don't know if time can help me get over this. To this day, not one day goes by that I don't think of him at least once, and I regret the 3 years we didn't speak after he moved. Some of my fondest memories and best times of my life were spent with him. Of course there were ups and downs, but the ups far outweighed them. I know he touched a lot of people in similar ways, because he WAS so charming and talented. It almost seemed like he knew how to do everything and knew the answer to every question I would ask him. I always tried to tell him how jealous of him I was because he had so much potential. I wish he could have touched so many more. I have so many memories of tod, I could go on for days and days, so I'll just say the world has lost a shiny star. My heart bleeds for anyone who ever knew and loved him. I just wish he could have touched so many more. I will never forget you Tod. I know you were always searching for peace in your soul and I hope you;ve found it where ever you are. I still miss you and love you. ~Prima

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Court
11 years ago

I knew Tod a long time ago( in Jr High). I recently came across some pictures and notes that we wrote eachother when he moved to Texas. I was tring to find him to see how things were going with him when I found out about the news. I am very sorry. I remember him being a happy and caring person. I am thinking and praying for him and all of his friends and family. I am glad that we met long ago. He will be missed. Courtney

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Cara Noyes
10 years ago

Just came across this, I heard Tod passed away, but my memory was 6th grade..skateland...he was one of those really long realtionships you had when you were 12, i got to call him my boyfriend for 3 weeks !! xoxoxoxo

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Jose Rivera
11 years ago

hey , was looking in facebook and came across a long lost friend , we use to chill when he live across the street from bruins . my name is jose rivera . had many good times with todd . like skatebording , chiilin doin what kids do . it my heart sink, when i just found out .. much love goes out to everyone who knew todd ..

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tracy5377
11 years ago

Thanks Jose... it was good to hear from you and thank you for sharing your words.

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tracy5377
11 years ago

Happy St. Patrick's Day. This day always reminds me of you my friend. Missing you and thinking of you always. Tracy

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meg
11 years ago

Hi, I know that you guys don’t know me, but I knew tod for short time when he moved back to tampa in 02-03. we worked at a little bistro in hyde park together. He was a smile walking into that place. He didn’t stay long, as I think that was his spirit, keep on moving, keep moving on… I am going through a difficult time of my own life now, listening to Missy Elliott, Under Construction, and it made me think of tod. I thought I would google him after all these years and it brought me to this tribute. Thank you friends. Thank you Tod. You made many smile; strangers or not so strange. I think that is a way to describe you, A Smile. You make people smile; I’m smiling with some tears, but still smiling, right now. Annie, my heart goes out to you. I don’t know you, but I know you are special. Peace to you, tod. ~meg

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karen reilly, mom 2
12 years ago

tod was always full of fun, always the jokester. He had a tremendous amount of fun at my expense and I love him for it.

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KEVIN
12 years ago

IT HASN'T EVEN BEEN A YEAR YET AND YOU HAVE MISSED SO MUCH ALREADY.I HOPE YOU FOUND THE PEACE YOU WERE LOOKING FOR. I AM SORRY ITS MY BIRTHDAY TODAY AND ALL I WISH I COULD GET IS THAT CALL FROM YOU WISHING ME A GOOD DAY .....WELL ALL I CAN SAY IS I MISS AND LOVE YOU....KEVIN

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sandy
12 years ago

I remember when you were just a dimpled little baby whom I changed his diapers. You grew up to be so beautiful, inside and out. You had a great sense of humor and fun to be around. i personally never heard you say anything negative about anybody. You were so gifted, had so much talent and potential. Now we'll never see it's fruition. I can't imagine life without you. I love you so much and will always think of you. I hope you're at peace.

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Erika Ramirez
12 years ago

for the beautiful dimpled baby that I helped change his diapers. You were always so cheerful and smilng and always a joy to be around. You never had a negative thing to say about anyone. You were also so talented. You had so many gifts. It hurts me that you couldn't bring them to fruition. I will miss you so much. I can't imagine the world without you. I will remember you always. All my Love.

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sandy
12 years ago

He seemed to be so kind and friendly. I met him through his family when he came to help with the house in Indianapolis., always smiling and laughing. will never be forgotten.

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tracy5377
12 years ago

He was such a beautiful baby and it just makes sense he would be sitting next to Cookie monster.

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12 years ago

I am still too raw and unable to share, but I want to thank Tracy for creating this tribute to my son. I miss him so very much! While as his mother my opinions may be biased, I believe that he was one of the kindest and most compassionate people to pass through my life. I miss his smile, his charm and his humor. I miss my son!

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tracy5377
12 years ago

Happy Birthday Tod. I miss you so much and would give anything to see you again. If I could see you, I would tell you we will all be okay and that Annie and I are closer than ever. We will celebrate your day tomorrow. Sending you love and peace. Tracy

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Chrissy
12 years ago

This was the subject line of an e-mail i received from Tod about 2 years ago. It was wonderful to hear from him. He's a distant cousin of mine, and we spent a lot of time together when we were kids. It had been years since we had seen each other. I was shocked when I heard of his death, and had been trying to find something online with no luck, until I came across this site. So thank you for creating this, because I think that it's a wonderful tribute to Tod. Tod, i hope you know how much we care about you, and we hope that you have found peace, and we know that we will see you someday again.

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12 years ago

Thank you Chrissy! I hope you have found happiness in life. I just put together a bokk of photos of Tod and found myself missing all of you too!

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12 years ago

We will always love and miss you Tod

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karen reilly, mom 2
12 years ago

tod, we all miss you so very much. still can't believe your gone, Hope that you are in a better place. I love you likke you were my own child and i'm glad you knew that. love you forever karen

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13 years ago

My best memory of Tod was driving down to Key West to visit him and Annie about 4 1/2 years ago. I have never had such a great time laughing and catching up as I did that weekend. I remember Tod telling me that he had a suprise for me and when I got there, it was Annie! I instantly clicked with Annie and now feel so lucky to call her one of my closest friends. I also remember that right before I left to go home, Tod told me that he loved me and always considered me to be like a little sister. I will never forget the look on his face when he said those words to me. I knew exactly what he meant because I considered Tod to not only be a great friend, but I thought of him as family. I love and miss you Tod. I know you are soaring with the angels and have finally found your peace.

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